We all need a little help when it comes to having a healthy relationship, because nobody gets it right the first time. You make mistakes, you mess things up, you apologize and then you make it better all over again. But there are some times when everything is made so easy by your partner, man or woman. Some people are so awesome, that it seems effortless to love them and to be in a healthy relationship with them. This article will give you the 10 signs your lover rocks, even though we’re aware that you already know they rock, but sometimes it’s good to have a list!
10. They Love You
Well, of course that any person who loves you honestly, rocks, but when they show you and make you feel loved, then they’re really great! Any man or woman who isn’t afraid to show they love someone is a pretty great person.
9. They Know How to Make You Feel Awesome
If your partner makes you feel sexy, smart, confident and beautiful then he or she rocks big time! It’s so easy to make your lover feel good about themselves, just a word or two darling, you look amazing today or you’re very sexy makes wonders for the self-esteem and anyone, man or woman, needs a boost in that department.
8. They Don’t Body Shame You
Body shaming your partner, man or woman, is horrible. The need to put someone down over their bodies, is absolutely loathsome. If you’ve got someone in your life that does that to you, then you should drop them like a shoe. We’re not saying that your partner is awesome just because they don’t body shame you, but know that even small observations that sometimes go unnoticed, such as, your love handles have grown, are not OK. Learn what body shaming is and how you can do something to fight against it.
7. They’re Sexy… in Your Eyes
How great it is when you’ve been in a relationship for quite a while and you still think of your partner as being one of the hottest men or women on the planet. If you still think they’re sexy, then they must be doing something right to keep themselves hot in your eyes. Tell them as often as possible that you think they’re sexy, because they deserve it!
6. They Include You in Their Future Plans
You know how when lovers talk, one of them says without thinking our children are going to do that. There’s almost always a pause, when the person realizes what they’ve said and are a bit afraid of how the other person would react. If your lover makes future plans that include you and they’re absolutely fine with that, it’s the cutest thing ever and it’s a sign that they rock!
5. They’re Honest
One of the biggest signs your lover rocks is that they’re always honest with you. Hiding and lying in a relationship will pretty much ensure that it goes down the drain in no time, so if you’ve got someone in your life that values honesty and truth, hold on to them, they’re a keeper!
4. They Don’t Judge You
There’s one thing to be called out for doing something wrong and another thing to be judged. If your partner doesn’t agree with or likes something you did, then they should either shut up about it or express their issues respectfully. Nobody should be made to feel like they did something wrong when they didn’t, especially someone who is supposed to love and respect you.
3. They Know What They Want from Life
A person who knows what they want out of life is an interesting person; a person who will almost always make smart moves about their career and a person who has stuff figured out. Most people who know what they want from life are pretty centered and peaceful and if your partner is like that, they you’re one lucky individual.
2. They Give You the Space You Need
One of the most important things in a relationship, sometimes almost as important as love and commitment is respect for space. Even if you love someone to death, that doesn’t mean you won’t want, at one point, to spend some time apart from them. It’s only normal to want to be alone with your thoughts. Any partner who understands that is pretty awesome.
1. They Support You
It’s great to have the support of those who are close to you. When you have it, you really feel like you can do pretty much anything you put your mind to it. When your significant other supports you, you feel like you can move mountains and that feeling is the best feeling in the world.
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